Saying I love you...........

The all times special three-lettersword, “I Love You” is what we wouldalways be hearing when we talk aboutlove. It is the words that one would useto express their feeling of affectionfor their very loved ones. But still,why is it that at times one simply justrefuses to say it to their love? Therehave indeed been a lot of postings fromfriends in our forum having suchexperience. Despite of them saying it totheir partner, they just never got itback from their love. It is for suredisappointing and at times just hurting,isn’t it? Are you one of them? One whois still waiting to be hearing thatspecial words from your love or perhapsone who has yet to say it to your love?Now, why wouldn’t one say it? Why wouldone be reluctant in saying it to theirlove, saying an I love you to them?

Hmmm…? Perhaps having the fear ofshouldering that responsibility behindthese powerful words? Yes, it is in away true. You shouldn’t be saying I loveyou to someone unless you truly mean it.Once it is said, you can never take it back.Well in fact, a friend in our forum didshare with us a thought of what he heardfrom a Christian pastor on a radioprogramme. In the belief of the pastor,a man shouldn’t be telling a woman thathe loves her unless the very next wordsare “Will you marry me?” Again, it isindeed in a way true. But if you were toask me, I am just going to tell you thatit certainly need not has to be thatserious or maybe a better word to bedescribing, scary. Yes, marriage shouldwithout doubts be the ultimateconsideration of all love relationshipat the end of the day. But do let mejust ask, how soon do you see yourselfgetting married?Well, there has to certainly be aconsiderable time of being togetherbefore the relationship would furtherdevelop into the stage of marriage. Forsome, a year or two and for some, up toeven a duration of 5 to 7 years beforereaching this stage. So are you notgoing to be saying “I love you” to yourlove during these times, not even once?

This certainly shouldn’t be the way. Ahealthy love relationship shouldn’t be so.Now may I just ask, why is it that youwant to be with that love of yours?Because you enjoy his or her presence,always enjoying your time with him orher? Precisely! A healthy relationshipshould always be an enjoyable one, onewhich both enjoy spending their timewith one another over and over again.There is no need to make yourself befeeling so stressed. A healthyrelationship should never be a stressfulone. Having to deal with the fast pacedworld can be stressful enough at times.And so when it comes to yourrelationship with your loved one, itshould be a relaxing and enjoyable one.It is only when you enjoy the time withone another, will you ever then have thethoughts of spending that life of yourswith him or her. Isn’t it so? Saying Ilove you is just a way of expressingyour affection for your love. It doesn’thave to be that stressful. It shouldinstead just come from within yourheart, in a very joyful and relaxingmood… To be getting an “I love You” fromyour love is just always that sweet. Andto be saying it to your love, is a niceway of assuring and promising him or her of your very love for them..


So, why not say it to them? Tell yourvery love just how much you love him orher. You need not have to wait for himor her. You can definitely be taking theinitiative. Why not? I am sure that yourlove would just love to be hearing itfrom you. Wouldn’t you love to behearing it from your very loved one too?Nonetheless, this can be a good way ofkeeping that flame of love between theboth just ever burning and sparkling… Tobe getting an assurance of love fromyour partner, isn’t that what you wouldlove to be receiving? But do remember,it is still always the actions thatspeak louder than to words. Now, maybethat him or her of yours has yet to saythat very three-letters word to you buthow has he or she treated you all thesewhile, you should know it best. Thattender, love and care from him or her isafterall what that truly matter? Well,if he or she truly loves you, it isgoing to be just a matter of time whenhe or she will say it to you. Believe inyourself, your love and yourrelationship. Be patient in love.


Saying an “I love You” to your loved oneis for sure nice. But then again, youdon’t have to always be saying it justvery here and then. Remember, the wordshave to come from truly within yourheart, in a very joyful and relaxingmood. And only so, will the realwarmness and meaningfulness of the wordsbe there; to be touching that very heartof that beloved of yours. Well, savethem for during those special occasionsor when the correct mood or timing isthere… And last but not least, don’tforget to response back in saying an “Ilove you too” to your love when youreceived it from him or her. Arelationship is always a two-waycommunication, isn’t it? Don’tdisappoint your love. Well, you may notbe ready now but when the correct timingarrives when you feel the want to besaying it, just do it. Be courageous inlove…